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POST TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDER:
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PTSD is believed by many experts to be the most common aftereffect of sexual abuse.
PTSD itself has a subset of varying symptoms, which the Mayo Clinic says may include fearful thoughts and bad dreams; also depression, worry, intense guilt, panic attacks, and feeling emotionally numb (dissociation).
However, the most central feature of PTSD is flashbacks. Persons find that their minds constantly jump back and forth between past and present. Anything — even something as minor as walking past a person with long hair, if the perpetrator had long hair — can be a trigger. Not just the memory itself comes back, but so do the emotions connected with that memory, a sort of persistent “re-experiencing” the traumatic events. Those with the disorder would like to be able to turn it off, but cannot. They have to find a way to deal with the constant onslaught of images and overpowering feelings. Those are often accompanied by the “fight or flight” response, a reaction of the autonomic nervous system to the visually invasive images in the mind.
PTSD actually changes the physical properties of the brain. That is, how the left side of the brain, which controls logical thinking, interacts with the right side which controls emotions. When the two sides work together as they are designed to, a person will feel strong emotions when a traumatic event happens. But at some point the brain of a non-PTSD person moves those feelings and memories to the left hemisphere where they are “time-stamped.” After that, the memories aren’t felt as strongly when they come to mind again. With PTSD, the memories stay lodged in the right side of the brain, so any little thing—a word, a smell, a place, an event—triggers the same emotions felt as when the event first happened. Persons with PTSD cannot simply “stop thinking about it” or “get over it.” Telling them to “let it go” is not only unhelpful, it lays another burden of guilt and failure on their shoulders.
Researchers are continually looking for ways to help people with Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. A few ways include cognitive therapy, medication, biofeedback, stress inoculation training, exposure therapy, and EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing). Every person is different; therefore, some may be helped by one method, and some by another.
Everyone who lives with PTSD eventually develops his or her own ways of coping. Some ways, like alcohol and illicit drugs, are obviously not good ways. Yet those with this disorder tend to be resilient, strong, and creative people. Over time, and if they have the love and support of people who care, they devise “mental tools” that enable them to function and even thrive, and help make their own little corner of the world a better place.
Resources for PTSD:
U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs—National Center for PTSD:
https://www.ptsd.va.gov/understand/index.asp
American Addiction Centers—information on the link between PTSD and addictions:
https://www.projectknow.com/the-link-between-ptsd-and-alcoholism/
https://americanaddictioncenters.org/co-occurring-disorders/ptsd-addiction
National Institute of Mental Health:
https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/post-traumatic-stress-disorder-ptsd/index.shtml
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD):
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